Today we had the honor of placing wreaths on the graves of veterans who sacrificed their lives during World War II. The girls sold wreaths for several years when each of them were involved with American Heritage Girls, but the last time we were able to participate in the actual wreath laying was in Virginia.
What made today even more special than the last time we did it, was the fact that this was the very first time that wreaths were laid on these graves - the first time in the nearly 75 years since the end of the war. Despite that fact, don't think for a minute that these heroes have been forgotten. The Dutch people, as we are finding out more and more, are an amazing culture. For the last 75 years these soldiers have been loved and cared for by Dutch families - generations of them. There is a program here that allows families to adopt a grave or name of a soldier who hasn't been found, and it is apparently a very successful program as they have a 250 person waiting list for this particular cemetery. It is something that these families take very seriously, and I have no doubt that the soldiers and what their sacrifice means will not be forgotten.






Written on this wall, and the one opposite it, are over 1,700 names of soldiers whose bodies were not recovered (any that have since been recovered have a rosette by their name). While we were looking at the names on the wall I observed a young family who had apparently adopted one of the names on that wall. I watched, with tears in my eyes, as this young mom talked to her daughter about "their" soldier, and then lovingly touched his name. I have no ties to any of these soldiers, but have a long family history of service to our country, and as a daughter of a sailor and the wife of a soldier, it means the world to me that our veterans are being remembered and loved even when their own families cannot physically be there to do the same.
The American Legion post here had a great deal to do with the organization of this event.
A C 130 out of Ramstein Air Force Base did a fly over
Placing a wreath and saying the soldier's name.
We do this so a soldier doesn't experience his or her "second death". To paraphrase a quote from Bansky: A soldier dies twice - once on the battlefield and again when his name is spoken for the last time.
The rows have a slight arc to them instead of being straight as we see in the USA
There are 8,301 graves at this cemetery and each cross got a wreath, and each headstone that is a Star of David got a stone (Jewish people don't use decorations on graves).